Alright so I've done both and here is what I've found out. When you get people to join your group from the forums, you risk who they bring with them. For instance, I had a party started with one of my irl friends and I invited someone from the forums who I had played with before. He is chill and laid back just like my friend and I. We played a game, we talked about the game, talked some trash, communicated, and it was fun.

Then my screen started blowing up with people joining my party. 3 friends of the forum guy joined our party and talked and talked about random sh*t. We played a game or two but they were so god damn annoying my buddy and I had to leave.

The moral of the story is, yeah it's cool to have a full party and own games, but when its a party of immature 15 year olds that you didn't invite to the party, who are just tagging along, I would much rather play by myself or with 1 or 2 people.

I would like to send an invitation to anyone who wants to play that:
doesn't boost,
is mature (I don't care how old you are just don't be f*ckin annoying),
wants to win,
has a decent kdr or win/loss ratio,
doesn't have random people that they invite to the party that don't meet the requirements. LOL

Anyways hit me up. GT - Ph4tm4n231

I know what you mean, experienced the exact same thing this morning ..plus their friends joined our party chat & were playing Black Ops & GOW, so we had people talking about Crysis, GOW, and Black Ops all in the same party, I was like WTF and had to kick them.

I'll send you an invite now, I've met around 6 people here so far that are chill but competitive, we've been playing all day but a few got off.

Sounds good man, yeah same thing with the party members playing other games... annoying as f*ck...
I'm at work right now but I'll be on around 6pm MST.

Update: Changed name of thread...

I'll play comptetively so as long as its not tryhard people.

GT: blondbassist.

I'm chill, decent player n love this game! I mainly run CrashSite but will do others.
Hit me up.....GT- B3ASTN33Z