So, I decide to marry Onmund, but what happens? Right at the ceremony, he walked out as soon as I said... um... whatever the I DO statement was. So, I can't find him anywhere. I check all my houses and winterhold. I search google, and some other people have this problem. One says that after he became archmage, he re-appears, but I was already the Arch-mage. Other's say it just takes a day or two, and he would show up (Again at the College of Winterold). Again, nothing. I would settle for just killing him and marrying someone else... but I have to find him to kill him. Any ideas?

happened to me to but not with onmund. fast travel to another city, any other city and wait 24 hours or more. travel back to riften and run back to the temple and they should be in the temple somewhere.

That did it! Thanks! I was losing my mind!

glad it worked. by the way i should mention you can only marry once.

He ran out after my wedding too and I found him back at the College a day later.

Yeah, they all walk out as soon as they say their line. At that point it's best to exit the conversation with the priest (press Tab or B or whatever; he'll keep talking but you can walk away) and chase down your spouse so you can tell them where you want them to live.

I hope this gets fixed. Happened to my with Ysolda. Luckily, I'd already seen a thread about how to find her again.