I was entering Morthal.. for the first time when i saw this beautiful nord called alva, i had the amulet of mara but couldnt propose, i went to her home and realized she had a husband... so i ripped him apart! now when i speak to her she doesnt even realize he's dead and i still cant propose....... i used google and found out i couldnt even marry her to begin with... im heart broken

Is this just a metaphorical tale about your real love-life? Try taking her out to dinner dude, it works for most people.

probably not, cause i wouldnt go and kill a womans husband

Yes, take Alva out for dinner.

No, don't take Alva out for dinner.
Have her for dinner.
If only we could marry anybody we want.

Speaking of love lifes. My marriage with Aela was going super well until a Giant sent her a thousand feet into the air.

I wasn't even strong enough to avenge her I ran away.

It's hard to imagine that a woman who's husband was just murdered would be dating any time soon. My guess is it would be years before she started looking. As to her not noticing the death: denial is a stage of grief! (kidding)

That could have been a perfect Romeo and Juliet type scenario. Love lorn and stricken by grief you could have sacrificed yourself to the giant and so have eternal and everlasting rest with you lost love. And then hit Load.

LOL. Mine just stays in the house, a cash machine, but a total bore.