Living in Whiterun and married to Jenassa. I get the Well Rested perk but can never get Lover's Comfort, even if I sleep in the bed while she's sleeping in it.
I read that some bug requires you to sleep in the spouses house first, then move to your new home and that makes it work. Well technically Jenassa doesn't have a home.
Hmm, according to UESP.net, there are no unowned beds in the Drunken Huntsman where she hangs out, so I'm not sure the usual fix will work. You could try asking her to move into her place, then waiting there 24 hours, then asking her to move into your place. However, if sleeping in the spouse's property is what actually fixes the bug, you may be out of luck.