Do you find yourself focused on surviving through just your pets or do you feel you contribute with your spells? Is Altmer mandatory? Do you have your gear self enchanted or found? I really am curious, please don't take this as sarcasm or something.
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Aravy, thank you very much for your input! BBetween you two, I think I can put together a damn fine wizard. I <3 these forums.
Well, at occasion I do play my battlemage as a pure spellcaster, my conjuration is at lvl 90 so I've a storm atronach to tank the stuff. What I do is simply pop him infront of me, step back, and start casting single fireballs. If anyone approaches me, I can just dual cast and stagger them. My conjuration is certainly not enough to take on enemies alone, as he doesn't do alot of damage, but paired with my destro spells I plow through most enemies. Altmer isn't mandatory, I play a dunmer mage, and as such I get a really powerfull resistance to fire, which helps alot vs other mages, also we get a destruction bonus

My gear is ebony, I don't do smithing so I don't really have acces to deadric or dragonbone except for the small chance from dungeons. I've enchanted this with reduced destruction cast primarily. I've also enchanted my boots with frost resistance, so I'm resistant to both fire and frost, which are the most common spells. Also, you might want to get the dragon mask Nahkriin, as it gives a really powerful destruction and restoration cost reduction.
Edit: You're welcome!