Greetings fellow Skyrim players,
I'm writing to you in hope that you'll help me understand something regarding the fairness of the game. The problem is like this: in the beginning I'm told about fighting with weapons, sneaking, but nothing is seemingly told about the use of magic. Even though at some point in Helgen's keep I can pick up a book containing a spell and loot mage equipment, I'm not told anything about spells. I'm wondering if I have somehow missed the tutorial regarding spells, or if I'm only meant to learn about them later in the game (that is, after visiting the College of Winterhold). I have played a bit before recently starting over, but I can't remember what I've done back then.
So the precise question is, am I told somewhere before College of Winterhold about SPELLS and HOW TO USE SPELLS? This excludes the manual and the "Help" page in the "ESC" menu. Thank you very much!

Maybe this "fair" thing is just something in my head.. probably it shouldn't preoccupy me that much in the context of the game.

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