In oblivion i was a spell sword because i like magic and weapons alot. thank god that i don't need alchemy any more though. my point is though, i think i have to many specialies. I'm a nord that specializes in
-one handed
-destruction
-conjuration
-heavy armor
-sneak
-blocking
I just really like being able to dual wield, or sneak up and kill someone, or switch to magic, or summon something crazy all while being protected by some good armor. I seem to be leveling quickly and i"m afraid i mastered to many things to be able to unlock all the good perks.

That is the point, you are only supposed to specialize in a few of them, not all of them. Its great they give us so many so everyone can play totally differently and have a different experience.
If you want to use magic, just pick destruction or conjuration not both. Then once one tree is filled out to your liking you can start using the other..

Like the saying goes, jack of all trades but a master of none.

thanks, I should have stated it a little better. all of those are what i mainly use but i major in one hand and conjuration. also heavy armor i guess since well, im wearing it and i can't do anything to stop that. sneak is also one of my favorite things in the game, makes for some easy kills. the 4 i just mentioned are around level 40 and the others are about 25-30

i suggest dropping sneak. seriously, heavy armor and sneak?

lol you make a good point, but i like the damage bonuses and it lets you sneak up on people rather than get overwhelmed by 6 opponents. even with heavy armor, its really useful. did it in oblivion. right now sneak is one of my highest skills

I'm level 30, and it looks like you'll only be able to max 4-5 skill trees per character, so focusing is a must if you want to get the powerful perks. I like it, since it will mean I've have a significant difference between different characters.