talk ED-E / companion commands
tell him "back up"
exit companion commands
talk ED-E / companion commands
tell him "be passive"
... after this he started moving & shooting again
talk ED-D / companion commands
tell him "be aggressive"
... after this my crosshair returned to normal when i looked at my companions.
i went through the process a couple times to c if i could break him, but he's still working.