I am in so much trouble in white run and everytime i come in they attack help

Reload a previous save. If you don't have any, abandon any quests there or start over. Much earlier on, i made the mistake of killing a chicken in Riverwood, and promptly had the Blacksmith running at me with an axe. I started over from there, as the ensuing slaughter resulted in the entirety of Riverwood dead, but me dying because my only save was in the inn. Delphine sure did kick my ass.

Wait somewhere for 3-4 days then come back, it will erase your bounty.