Uh... I'm going to turn this topic into something a bit more substantive. Whenever I do his quest, I always tell him the truth about his sister. Is that the right thing to do? Crazy and hurting he may be, but telling him that his sister will be home soon just feels... cruel. I figure he has a better chance of finding peace, and maybe actually bettering himself, if he knows what really happened. What did you all do?
^ This. I really wanted to smack the innkeeper around for that one. Sure, keep telling the poor guy his sister will be "home soon." That's the ticket. While it's equally as heartbreaking to tell him his sister's quite dead, I felt much better doing that rather than sticking with the "no, she'll totally be home soon, lolz" line the innkeeper was running. Catharsis is better than lies and denial, you know?
Anyway. My character has always felt sorry for Narfi. Whenever she passes through Ivarstead, she usually stops by his...uh, house to leave him some food and coin. Her reasoning is somebody's got to look after the poor guy, since he's clearly not too capable of looking after himself.