First off I wanna say that destructible bottles needs to be at the bottom of my load order for it to work. I will show you my BOSS load order and maybe someone can see where the conflict is.
Also, I have submitted these mods to BOSS and it's been a little bit since they updated, so I have no idea where they go. These mods are:
- Warmer Magic Lights v1.esp
- CP Apple Trees.esp
- Summon Behemot Dragon.esp
- Epic Combat Music.esp
For anyone ready to help or just out of curiosity (I got all the goodies), here's my load order:
- Skyrim.esm
- Update.esm
- ApachiiHair.esm
- ETaC - RESOURCES.esm
- Imp's More Complex Needs.esm
- Populated Cities NPCListMaster.esm
- SkyMoMod.esm
- SPIKE.esm
- JSwords.esm
- SkyrimSewers.esm
- SoS - Civilization.esp
- Shadow Striping Fix.esp
- Chesko_Frostfall.esp
- Rainbows.esp
- BWS.esp
- IceBreaker's Improved Reverb-v0.02-Cleaned.esp
- randomthunder.esp
- SoS - The Dungeons.esp
- SoS - The Wilds.esp
- EnhancedLightsandFX.esp
- MintyLightningMod.esp
- StaticMeshImprovementMod.esp
- 83Willows_101BUGS_V4_HighRes.esp
- Behemoth Dragon.esp
- Birdsofskyrim.esp
- Cannabis.esp
- Carriage1.esp
- Catsofskyrim.esp
- CPDisease.esp
- Death Cam (10 seconds).esp
- Dogsofskyrim.esp
- More Interactive Items.esp
- Radiant and Unique Potions and Poisons v2.0 non glow.esp
- SabreFurBag.esp
- ShootingStars.esp
- skyBirds - Airborne Perching Birds.esp
- Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp
- Tamriel Compendium.esp
- ThalmorBanditVamp.esp
- Torch of Everlasting.esp
- Tytanis.esp
- Unique BOOZE Bottles.esp
- Destructible_bottles.esp
- Auto Unequip Arrows.esp
- Chesko_LoreBasedLoadingScreens.esp
- Footprints.esp
- IMAGINATOR - Visual Control for Skyrim.esp
- Ket_3DLoadscreens.esp
- WetandCold.esp
- BlackSacramentArmor.esp
- Bucklers-Complete.esp
- Cloaks.esp
- 1nivWICCloaks.esp
- CoolItems1_1.esp
- d2Helmets.esp
- DEATH-DEALER.esp
- dwarvenscythe.esp
- DwemerAutoBlade.esp
- EternalShineArmorAndWeapons.esp
- Evil MasterMind Armor.esp
- FF7 Blades.esp
- HedgeKnight.esp
- hunterarmor.esp
- Imperial Dragon Armor.esp
- IsilGlamdring.esp
- isilNarsil.esp
- JSwordsDistributionBalancePlugin.esp
- Knight Of Thorns Armor.esp
- LeatherBackpack-150.esp
- Magicka Sabers.esp
- MysticGloves.esp
- Nicoroshi Creations.esp
- SamuraiArmor.esp
- SilverDragonArmor.esp
- Throwing Knives.esp
- Dr_Bandolier.esp
- DeadlyDragons.esp
- DeadlyDragonsSpells.esp
- DeadlyDragonsArmory.esp
- Better Thieves Guild.esp
- Breezehomeshelves02.esp
- BreezehomeEnchantingTable.esp
- SkyrimChimneysRW.esp
- Whiterun Ferns.esp Active
- Acquisitive Soul Gems.esp
- Barenziah's Crown.esp
- Better Dynamic Snow.esp
- BetterQuestObjectives.esp
- FasterArrows75.esp
- Guard Dialogue Overhaul.esp
- Headtracking.esp
- Killable Children - Quest Important Protected.esp
- Lightweight Scrolls.esp
- longercandlelight5min.esp
- potions_poisons_0_1.esp
- Skyrim bigger trees.esp
- Distant Detail.esp
- SkyTEST-RealisticAnimals&Predators.esp
- dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp
- dD-SkyrimMonsterMod EBT Patch.esp
- dD - Easy Lift Bodies and Objects.esp
- ETaC - Villages Complete.esp
- ETaC Follower Add-On.esp
- ETaC BFT Patch.esp
- Unique Region Names.esp
- Populated Cities.esp
- dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp
- IMCN - Overrides.esp
- WerewolfUpgrade.esp
- apocalypse.esp
- MidasSkyrim.esp
- ShoutCD.esp
- BFSEffects.esp
- dovahkiinrelax.esp
- ignitetheworld.esp
- Duel - Combat Realism.esp
- ACE Realistic Fighting.esp
- Dual Wield Parrying_DualAttack.esp
- The Dance of Death.esp
- ACE BYOG.esp
- ACE Speech.esp
- ACE Archery.esp
- ACE Armor.esp
- ACE Enchanting.esp
- ACE Magic.esp
- ACE Melee.esp
- ACE Smithing.esp
- ACE Synergy.esp
- dD-No Spinning Death Animation.esp
- 3DNPC.esp
- UFO - Ultimate Follower Overhaul.esp
- Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
- ethereal_elven_overhaul.esp
- You Are Over-encumbered.esp
- rcrnShaders.esp
- Animated Weapon Enchants.esp
- WATER.esp
- Blacksmithforge water fix.esp
- minemapmarkers.esp
where to put unrecognized plugins
better place to put destructible bottles.esp
recommendations for mods I may have missed

bashed patch: is it beneficial to make one, and if so, do I select the skyrim and update .esm's along with all the others?
Climates of Tamriel: am I missing out? Currently rocking the latest .esp with RCRN. Always wondered about CoT since I never tried it.
Thank you to the modders and the Skyrim community. We are lucky.