But the more you get to know her directly the more likely you are to fall into FRIEND ZONE!!! Dun dun duhhhhh

Women! *throws hands in air and stomps off*

Eh some people wont get this joke, im not going to risk it.

I think you should just constantly talk about it on the internet, over think it, fret over it and worry yourself round in circles into a corner until you're afraid to speak to anyone, let alone just her. That way sooner or later the time will pass, she'll find someone else, move away or generally just lose interest, and you'll never have to man up and actually do anything. It may lead you into apathy, depression and a miserable life, but at least you wont have to feel some slight embarrassment this one time...

Here are some questions I need answered by the OP.

How old is she? Does she talk kind of awkwardly around you?

Where do you live? Geographically I mean. Is there an ocean? Lake? River? Desert?

Is she celibate/a wait till she is married kind of church girl?

You really do not even need to do anything complicated in any case. Simply ask her if she is doing anything later. If she says she is busy just say you will see what she is doing another time and make sure you DO ask her again. Don't do the whole oh you are busy X day what about Y day thing, just wait till another opportunity presents itself. When you come back and ask her again it does several things. Promotes confidence in her about you. It also subtly reinforces your own reliability and makes her think you are patient. All qualities many girls like in men. Hopefully she says yes. If you get a blatant no then well she is just not interested. When asking her out just have some kind of proposal ready. That is important. Like a bite to eat(know what type of food and the specific restaurant), a movie(again know what you are watching), picnics are kind of outdated but if you time them right you can net yourselves a romantic sunset which will stand out more and she will remember you. Of course the romance will die if you do not keep her interested. That part is all on you though. If she says yes to whatever you propose just act polite and like yourself. If it is awkward and weird then say eff it and at least you tried. Know when to step back from the situation. Who knows, maybe you pulling away will make her like you more all of a sudden. Women are fickle like that sometimes.

Men! *shaves head, joins CND*

You're already on the right track.

asked her out gonna go see Star Wars and Chronicle saturday then go to interuben, so yeah

You have [censored] butterflies. The guy below can help you out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIu20j0ecy8&feature=relmfu guy is great. You should listen to him. Yes, he gets girls. And films it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AiW2rX90o0o&feature=related

Well, all humor aside, let me say this: Go for it. It's good you are making a move and all. Just be careful not to be too timid and sy because she will notice this and you will inevitably be placed into the friend zone. She doesn’t put you in the friend zone, you can put yourself in that situation. If you diffuse tension, you act polite and nice, and you refuse to express how you feel about her through your words or maybe even the body language. Listne to me when I say this. If you don't want to be put into the friend zone stop treating her like a friend and start being real genuine, and open with her. When she does something you think is sixy: Tell her. When she does something that makes you want to kiss her: Tell her.

Don't be too pushy, be flirty. You are going to see Star Wars? Great. It's a movie. Two movies with Chronicle. More than enough time to escelate. Just don't think about it too much otherwise it will be harder to hide your anxiety.

Make sure it's a date. Not just a friendly get together at the local movie theater. A date, guy. A DATE!

have you ever played catan? grab sme friends and come over, well play

I've never tried a Church-goer.


Than again I'm atheist.

Come back tomorrow and tell us what happened.

If you like her and are talking you have started already.
No advice because I'd be stupid to offer, and and idiot to joke about this.
Just talk to her and I hope it goes well.

Way hey, problem solved, good on you for asking it out.

This thread went in a meandering direction though, with a few inappropriate comments and more about guys going to strip clubs than I am interested in learning. So I will lock it, lest I have to hand out warnings.

Lastly... interuben sounds kinda... dirty. Be careful!!





Steampunk! *throws hands in air, stomps out of thread*

Way hey, problem solved, good on you for asking her out.

This thread went in a meandering direction though, with a few inappropriate comments and more about guys going to strip clubs than I am interested in learning. So I will lock it, lest I have to hand out warnings.

Lastly... interuben sounds kinda... dirty. Be careful!!





Steampunk! *throws hands in air, stomps out of thread*