Hey Guys, I was able to make the hair and cape flowy with some added bones and reskinned meshes. I know I need to edit skeleton_female.hkx as well which I did. Everything looks perfect. You can check some gif pictures out at ( I can't post pictures and links I don't know why!) http://bbs.3dmgame.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=4503901&do=album&id=9129 which is a 3DM link, no worries about unecessary stuff.
Now I got stuck with some CTD problems with other hairs and further added bones. I mean I made a new skeleton with additional bones first then stick with it to make my first flowy hair. It worked! So did the cape. Then I realized I can do the same with every flexible thing if I can add enough bones. So I tried and reskinned other hairs and guess what, I ran into CTD problems.Only the first hair and the first custom skeleton worked, everything else crashes! I know this sounds rare and weird but if anyone has any clue, please help. I'm so close to getting it done. Thanks a bunch!