That whole class is ridiculously hard. All the tests are 10 questions long and 80% of your grade is your tests, 20% is homework which is also 10 questions. So your homework wont help you if you bomb a test but if you don't do it, the best you can get is an 80/B with 100/A's on all your tests which is impossible since if you miss 1 you're already down to a 90/A.
I'm the only person in the class with an A right now, and it's only a 90. I'm pretty sure about half the class is failing. I have friends that are in college calc that say it's ten times easier than her class was, and I believe them.
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Well, congratulations on having a 90% grade! That sounds like a huge feat
I think I would agree with your friend from College, too. Generally, college calculus is maybe a bit harder than general secondary school calculus, which is generally fair and not like what yours seems to be, I think

However, I can't say the same for first year calculus courses in universities, haha. Mine is a "theory" course, and its crazy, D+ -- but very interesting! If you like math, read "Calculus," by
Michael Spivak. I guarantee it will enlighten your view and understanding of math, D=