Okay, so two main things:

A ) Divorce. Plain and simple. Make it happen.

B ) May contain very minor spoilers. For vampires, your spouse and/or housecarl should sleep every night from some time to sometime, so you don't have to leave home to hunt. And/or be able to fill a bottle once a night with blood, so if your going to be away from society awhile.

What are your guys thoughts? Good ideas or not?

Patches are for fixing game breaking bugs that dont work as the game intended, not altering gameplay for a contemporary mindset