Is there any place to download the latest patch on the net that does not require taking my ps3 on-line, as I only use a dongle for my net on the pc and have no internet option for my ps3 as have no broadband.
If not can I throw a temper tantrum, cause it will really tick me off

No, sorry, to patch a console game you must usually connect it to the web. What kinda of dongle are you using? It is a wi-fi access dongle or something like a laptop 4G access card? If you are using a wi-fi dongle then I promise you that you can set up your PS3 to get that signal.
Why bother, the patch is a joke. If you have had any freezing issues, I can tell you from my experience with this new patch that it didn't do anything to resolve it.
Why would you even bother to say this? Just to be a troll? Hey OP I have been playing this game since midnight the day it came out and neither my wife nor I have had ANYWHERE near the issues that some people on these boards complain about. Some people get them, some don't just like FO3. The game ISN'T broken in general it just needs this patch to fix some issues. Patches FTW!!!!