I get the general idea, dead is dead. No reloads, no second chances ( unless it was caused by glitch, lag, bug ) but how the heck can you play like this? does anyone have a DID character?
The idea sounds interesting but after hundreds of hours maybe more and you somehow fall in a fight, that's it? o.o Does anyone here play DID? If so any tips you can give? Is it worth the effort? Does it make it more realistic?

There are alot of people who play DID and there's an active thread about it

Can you direct me to it ?

Here's the most recent one

http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1420847-the-skyrim-dead-is-dead-thread-xii/page__p__21854552__hl__dead%20is%20dead__fromsearch__1#entry21854552

I haven't played DiD in this game yet, but I have in others. The trick is to create the character knowing that it will die. You're making the character for personal enjoyment and challenge - not for progression. Of course, you can and should still progress your character - just remember that it's just a game mechanic, not a goal in itself. Once you can get into that mindset, it can be great jumpy dodgy fun.

Ironically, I only get frustrated if a DiD character dies early. If the character survives for a long time and dies rich and well-developed, I call it a good run. Provided there were sufficient "close calls" so that I feel properly challenged.