My secret admirer?

Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:03 am

Ellert, it's ok my darling, we'll ride into the sunset together via horseback with our hairs flowing in the wind!
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Dalia
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:40 am

Just go looking for someone with a rose bush with some missing roses.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:12 am

Just go looking for someone with a rose bush with some missing roses.
I accuse. The Florist. In the Shop. With the Cash Register!
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Lavender Brown
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 10:55 pm

This made me sad...
I lost a potential buddy.
Why are you leaving?

S'ok squirrel - you still have me.
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Charlotte Buckley
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 8:12 am

S'ok squirrel - you still have me.

The deep friendship between an Evil Fish and an Evil Squirrel. It's like an Enid Blyton tale. :)
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Jamie Moysey
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:49 pm

Threaten to jump off a tall building unless he reveals himself.
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Nikki Lawrence
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 2:02 pm

to the OP- leave a note on your guitar case for next time saying thank you for the roses, but you'd like to know who he is. Or like some others on here suggested, leave your case in a strategic location and hide somewhere so you can see who it is.
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Manuel rivera
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 12:54 pm

I'd recommend, either a hidden camera (if you're a shy person), if not leave a note thanking for the flowers and say that you want to meet him/her (you fon't know who it is after all).
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Soraya Davy
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:36 am

Perhaps it is a big presumption but is it really bigger than presuming that the so called "love at first sight" can actually grow into real love ? There are indeed people who stay together after having some magical moment where they both fell in love but in most of those cases that I know of the only thing keeping them together is that they had a child early on and don't feel like they can ditch each other because of that. And even then in four of those cases they did end up ditching each other when their last kid was old enough for one of them to comfortably raise it on their own.

And then there are even more cases of love at first sight that never lives for more than half a year to a year at which point they fall apart and begin anew. Know people on both the "I was dumped" and "I dumped" spectrum of this and one guy who was all over his GF told me when I asked him why he dumped her that he did it because "she wanted to spend too much time with me". What a grand love he had for that girl, and interestingly enough it all started when he was 15 and she was 14 which matches the age of the OP at least in the age of the girl. High school romances are most of the time born on simple raging hormones and peer pressure to be with someone, and getting together with someone rashly at that age is not something to be desired.

I guess she can try and give him a chance but I'm willing to bet on a lot of observing the people around me that it will mostly end in heartache for either her, him or both before too long.
That is the entire point of dating: to get to know someone well enough to see if you want to be with them. You could say to me "well thats what being friends is for" but if you like someone romantically, why not go for it? As for heart ache, that is a very necessary thing. Everyone needs heart ache to fully appreciate it when they finally do find someone they can be with for the rest of their lives.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 10:17 am

to the OP- leave a note on your guitar case for next time saying thank you for the roses, but you'd like to know who he is. Or like some others on here suggested, leave your case in a strategic location and hide somewhere so you can see who it is.
I don't know, I think a bear trap could still work.
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Dalia
 
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 10:49 pm

There is no such thing as love based on seeing someone from a distance or only meeting them in public areas. Whoever it is who is giving you roses is not experiencing love but lust

This I agree with, making "love at first sight" impossible IMO :shrug:

But I do think, especially since you seem like you're still in school, that you should give it a shot. Experiences like this will make you either happy for life or bitter and jaded at a young age.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:45 am

Rig the guitar with a land mine. While he walks over to place the rose, the mine with pick up his footsteps, and take him out.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:09 am

Maybe he's a nice guy, maybe he's not, but the bottom line is that he doesn't truly love you as he doesn't know you well enough to love you so at best there is a 50% chance he even likes you, and that's not factoring in if you like him and if you two can work out together so ultimately it's statistically unwise to show any interest in those roses.

It is also impossible to know that you don't like someone if you don't give them a chance.

It is not like they are planning on getting married. You have to give people chances to see if you like them, that is how dating works.
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Julia Schwalbe
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 11:27 am

This is unusual on a gaming forum.

I smell a trap!
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Kelsey Hall
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:15 am

I smell a trap!
You shouldn't sniff chloroform.
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Jessica Phoenix
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:45 am

You shouldn't sniff chloroform.

Wait, wha... *collapses.*
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Lily
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:57 am

Maybe it's not a guy at all if you haven't seen him or her.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 6:46 am

The deep friendship between an Evil Fish and an Evil Squirrel. It's like an Enid Blyton tale. :smile:

We just need an Evil Dog Companion to aid us in our adventures.
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Post » Sun May 13, 2012 11:10 pm

We just need an Evil Dog Companion to aid us in our adventures.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T55ArHjeR1c
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 4:22 am

There is no such thing as love based on seeing someone from a distance or only meeting them in public areas. Whoever it is who is giving you roses is not experiencing love but lust and I would ignore it and better yet if you get another dispose of it where you know it will be noticed and if things go right word should spread that you threw the rose away.

Such games are only silly and if the one giving you roses is not emotionally mature enough to see how creepy it is to expect you to start liking him based on solely that without any deeper knowledge of his personality and temperament then it is someone you do not want around you.

Maybe he's a nice guy, maybe he's not, but the bottom line is that he doesn't truly love you as he doesn't know you well enough to love you so at best there is a 50% chance he even likes you, and that's not factoring in if you like him and if you two can work out together so ultimately it's statistically unwise to show any interest in those roses.

For all you know the secret admirir is her best friend. So yeah tehy know each other, that's nto creepy it's just the person doesn't have the guts yet to ask her out.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:06 am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T55ArHjeR1c
Perfect!
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