Advice, anyone?

Post » Mon May 14, 2012 8:50 pm

Hold up. Let us go back to the whole she is dating her brother thing...Am I misconstruing that? Or do you mean your at a friends house and your other best friend is dating this friends brother?

I am way to tired to think straight(54 hours no sleep...YAY!) so I will just say it boldly. Is incist going on?

Me too... and i read it twice :shocking:

:confused:
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Manny(BAKE)
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 4:20 pm

Maybe she should apologize to you for being naked in a place you could see/stumble upon?

Sounds like she "closed the barn door after the horse ran off". Normally one closes a door, then gets naked, not the other way around. At least where I'm from. :shrug:
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WYatt REed
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 8:05 pm

Are you upstairs like on a second story when you had to get the movie, or did you go into the basemant from the first story?

If you were going from your second story to the first story, and they were just doing it in the living room or something, I don't think you would be at fault there.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 10:21 pm

Sounds like she "closed the barn door after the horse ran off". Normally one closes a door, then gets naked, not the other way around. At least where I'm from. :shrug:
alcohol
??
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Chenae Butler
 
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 1:40 pm

Maybe she should apologize to you for being naked in a place you could see/stumble upon?

Sounds like she "closed the barn door after the horse ran off". Normally one closes a door, then gets naked, not the other way around. At least where I'm from. :shrug:
Apologize? You should thank her.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:49 pm

Perhaps it was all a ploy...as in an open invite to join the festivities. Next time ask if she remembers the show, "Three's Company" then ask if there is room for one more.

Just bear in mind, in that show it was two chicks and a dude; in your situation it might be weird.
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Soraya Davy
 
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 12:11 am

I don't want to come off as a chauvinist so I am not going to discuss women and reason as finding that pair is rather rare in my experience. Women tend to punch where I am from sometimes they do it in a good way sometimes they don't mean it in a good way I'm not going to pretend that I know how they work in any way whatsoever. The only thing I know is, one will most likely want to punch me after reading this post.

I punched a guy once who tried to go too far. Your name isn't Dan, is it? :tongue:

OP- it sounds like you're making this far too over-complicated. If she brings it up, apologise. If she doesn't, let it go. If they wanted to have privacy they shouldn't be getting it on in a room with a window for a door!
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 1:04 pm

To start, I know this forum has rules about these things, so suffice to say I was under the infuence (still am, a little) during this whole thing. That said, I just had the single most awkward experience in my life. Hence, why I'm turning to the internet. I'm at my friends house ( and my best friend, who happens to be a girl, is dating her brother) to hang out with her, and afforementioned best friend. Planning on watching movie, realize I forgot it downstairs, go downstairs to get it, and I'm pretty sure I just saw her naked. That's twice. Within a week. On St. Paddies, I did that, too. Though I was too drunk to actually remember it, that time.

Anyway, point is;

I have no idea what the hell I'm doing. That's kind of creepy. I know it's cheesey, but I'm worried that someone will think I'm " 'accidentally' walking in on them *wink, wink, nudge, nudge* " and it'll ruin things. So, forum, do I bring it up and apologize for having the worst timing in the history of Mankind, or try and just bury it?

Wait, shes dating her brother?

Well, I guess their family is close.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:35 pm

Wait, shes dating her brother?

Well, I guess their family is close.

Ahaha, no. I don't mean to bump this thread (as I've settled on what I'm going to do - thanks to you ladies and gents :)), but I just feel that I should clear it up.

I was at friend A's house, with friend B.

Friend A has a brother, who friend B is dating.

Friend B, is the one I saw naked.

So, no incist going on here.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 5:53 pm

Ahaha, no. I don't mean to bump this thread (as I've settled on what I'm going to do - thanks to you ladies and gents :smile:), but I just feel that I should clear it up.

I was at friend A's house, with friend B.

Friend A has a brother, who friend B is dating.

Friend B, is the one I saw naked.

So, no incist going on here.

Oh, the wording put me off.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:59 pm



Ahaha, no. I don't mean to bump this thread (as I've settled on what I'm going to do - thanks to you ladies and gents :)), but I just feel that I should clear it up.

I was at friend A's house, with friend B.

Friend A has a brother, who friend B is dating.

Friend B, is the one I saw naked.

So, no incist going on here.

So, you are taking my advice then? Awesome.
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 3:32 am

alcohol
??

No excuse. At least she, they, can't hold it against the OP. Don't want to be seen naked, close the dang door! If your drunk, and forget to, lesson learned. Or it should be!

Apologize? You should thank her.

Indeed. After she apologizes. :P

(Note: I was being kinda silly with my original post. Though I do believe in some of what I've stated, I was kinda being facetious about the apology.)
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 4:38 pm

Wait shes dating her brother?
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 1:00 am

Wait shes dating her brother?

It has been established multiple times this is not the case.
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 2:01 am

the girl is dating her brother?

Sorry, already been explained. Need to read more.
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 4:49 am

Been there done that, if she is naked in an area that has foot traffic, then its her problem, if she does care about getting her kit off in the lounge room, then if i was you id pull up a comfortable seat. If she has a problem then its probably not a smart idea to be naked in area where people can see her, otherwise she may not care, just kick back get some popcorn and throw the dvd away.
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 2:28 am

It has been established multiple times this is not the case.


Hahahaaha right I dated my brother once... Didn't go well with the authorities
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 9:18 pm

So you are visiting your friend,( who happens to be a girl), and you see your best friend, (who also happens to be a girl who is dating your friend's brother) naked.
Twas an accident, make no further issue of it, move on and don't bring up the awkwardness. Because it will not only make you and her uncomfortable, it will make your girl who is a friend, and her brother who is dating your female best friend uncomfortable as well.
Unless of course, you found the sight pleased you, and that is what worries you. Then, we have a whole new problem.
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 3:06 pm

( and my best friend, who happens to be a girl, is dating her brother)
Wait a minute she's dating her BROTHER?????
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 3:38 am

Some of you people are being deliberately obtuse. It was funny the first time, not so much the second, and it just went stupid after that.
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Post » Tue May 15, 2012 1:54 am

Wait a minute she's dating her BROTHER?????
:facepalm:
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Post » Mon May 14, 2012 11:19 pm

Unless of course, you found the sight pleased you, and that is what worries you. Then, we have a whole new problem.

Well, I'd be lying if I said I'd never thought about us being an "item", so that was definitely a factor in me asking if I should apologize. Sometimes I think I act too much like I'm her boyfriend (people have actually thought I was, too) and I didn't want her to think I keep "accidentally" finding her like that. 'Specially since I'm not sure if (you'll give me a moment to get cheesy on you. Then again, I suppose it doesn't matter because I'm doing it anyway!) I'm going with my heart or my brain on this one.

I KNOW it would be a bad idea, I just think we're too different to ever work as a couple. At the same time, I've never actually legitimately cared for somebody before. Though at 17, I suppose that's par for the course. Don't worry, I'm not about to confess my undying love for her; I know it's most likely just a crush, but how strong it is kinda throws me off. Plus, I'd have to go against one of my most strongly held beliefs and wedge myself between an existing couple, which just seems slimy and underhanded to me.... Then again, "alls fair in love and war", eh?

Also, I'm sorry for the long post, and keeping this thread alive past it's original need. Mamagato's post just caught me off guard, and got me thinking. I also find it strangely theraqeutic to pour one's heart out on the Internet, where you don't have to worry about being judged.

Next time I get the urge, I promise I'll bring it to a forum that accepts these kind of threads. I probably wouldn't have posted this, save for the fact I just spent the last hour typing this up on my iPod!
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