Well, of course, the problem with the I-do-as-I-please thesis, when taken to the extreme, has recently been at display in a Sikh Temple in Wisconsin. Do people, you in particular, enjoy paying taxes? Do you pay them? The thesis that good and evil are entirely and merely relativistic and viewpoint dependant is interesting. On one hand it attempts to glamorize evil, elevate it to an aesthetical and intellectual plateau, but when boiled down it is much closer to the animal kingdom that to that of thinking men. To do wrong, like, say, to manipulate people, is so easy. It's the easiest thing in the world, any toddler can do it. It takes guts to be gentle and kind, to quote a famous band. Those who glamorize evil lack such quality.
Were you on the "To ban" list?

Anyways, from your point of view, it may be "glamorizing evil", if evil is what you believe in. I believe that it doesn't have much to do with what is considerd easy or not, but if it is the ethical thing to do. Sure, using people can be easy, but easy is not the main point. The main point is to see what you, as an individual, can attain from such exploits. It does take courage to be gentle and kind, but how often does a person gain from that? In my opinion, over the years, being sympathetic and overly kind does not simply cut it.
If you do want to be helpful to an individual and be kind, don't help them at all. If you desire to help everyone in the world, you potentially weaken yourself in a way. Your prone to be kinder and far more open to people than nescessary and thus you face the possibility of being used. It is the struggles within, when fought and conquered on their own, that surrender the greatest of rewards. If you lend a helping hand to a person, then you cheapened their struggle and their path to rising above it, stealing away their potential. By allowing a person to fight their own battles without interfering with sacrifice, then they have a chance to prove themselves worthy in life, and when they win, they will be stronger for their victory. People do not mature through happiness alone. They rise and succeed through strife, conflict and understanding through hardships.