ok a little bit overreacting here.
on my opinion its not overreacting at all ... what would Bethesda say if we demand the DVD first and pay about one week after arrival
Edit:
since this is the second time this happens with a Bethesda game ...
when I write my next game pre-/review for a Bethesda game I will drive the point home that it is a mistake of massive proportion to pre-buy/pre-order a Bethesda game