Open up your NPC, go to the Character Gen Morphs tab, and play with sliders and choose preset nose/eye shapes.
As for the warpaint, it's pretty much just a matter of taking the Headpart in question and editing its details (usually in the form of an associated Formlist) so that it can be used by your desired race. Good way to make attractive Dark or High elves- just make them Wood Elves with different face/body textures.