You can't seem to trust her, so why be with her?

I agree, he clearly has something wrong with him if he thinks 'ruining someones life and then threatening to tie a guy to a bed and use rusty scissors to torture him doesn't make me evil and vindictive.' Seriously, what's with this board being filled with so many [censored] psychos?

The internet brings out the best in people.

well he obviously doesn't know who this guy is, and she hasn't mentioned it either.

I'm the same way, I'm not SECRETIVE per se, but I don't broadcast my friendships and such. I'm moving in with a friend and my mum asks all these questions and I just provide vague answers. I just don't enjoy being questioned period, perhaps she's the same way?

She is probably wondering what this other person is like so they don't find you buried under a crawlspace next to a bunch of other dudes.

That's something I'm struggling to understand myself. Perhaps when hidden behind a computer screen, it's easier for a person to unleash the worse they have in them?

OP you need more proof. And now it's sounding like you WANT her to leave you. Accusations can push a person away and start doing the very things you suspect them of doing.

That is a guy that thinks it's alright to tell his gf(generally speaking) that he found another female attractive and doesn't think it's right for the gf to be angry about it. So yeah, I don't think he's joking. . .

perhaps. point is if you're in a serious relationship (not just friends, or family) maybe you should tell your other half when you're going to be going to dinner with Random Person X. Especially since, even if you don't "enjoy being questioned" it's probably better to clear it up before they find out and it seems suspect. Assuming there is nothing to hide, obviously..

My mother's very seldom ever tried to be involved in my life beyond basic parental requirements, her picking and choosing when she wants to be involved and concerned can be intrusive. I find it more annoying to be pestered with 500 questions 'out of love', when this is the same person who booted me from the house at 16 because she chose to throw me as the sacrificial lamb so she could stay there with her boyfriend, but this thread isn't about me and we're digressing from the topic at hand.

Of course. It's the world of online. You can say just about anything to anyone and get away with it. No one knows who you are in real life. Heh, funny how we differentiate "online" and "real life" as if they're both different worlds.

Oops, double post.