I was looking for the ingredients and couldn't find them. could someone give them to me or point me in the right direction. please?!?!?

Most every ingredient you need is available from Alchemy Shops. Have you visited them all? Also, buy one thing from the merchant, leave, wait 24 hours, come back, the inventory may reset and they have new stuff to buy. Note, you may not need to buy anything, that is just a habit I have.

Look in this list, and if it says Common in the last column, they can be bought in Alchemy store. If they are not, then this will tell you where to find them

http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Ingredients

Any two of the following: Butterfly Wings, Dragons Tongue, Hagraven Claw and Tundra Cotton.

Tyvm!!!