Ok, so when you play ANY game, download an update, then play a different game, when you go back to that game do you have to download the update again? C'mon, people!
The amount of space set aside on the Xbox for patch cashing is limited. Usually if I play anywhere from 4 to 5 different games, I will have to redownload patches for the oldest game that I played first. So if you chose not to play Skyrim for a while you could lose your 1.1 patch if you play several other games that have to be patched. Best thing to do is once a day, throw in skyrim and start it, reject the 1.2 patch, then exit and play your other games.