Hello do we have any word yet on how the servers will be set up?
Make or break for me is the pve server rule set.
Really want a strict pve server rule set with NO pvp.

It has not yet been announced. However, it sounds like all servers will have PvP in Cyrodil as well as Battlegrounds. But in those cases, you don't need to worry about getting ganked while leveling/questing/etc.

We can only speculate currently, but if they follow Daoc models well they had normal servers which allowed safe pve areas for all 3 sides(note that did not include the pvp dungeons or frontiers which you could pve in as well) but you could pve without ever having to pvp if you so chose, all the way up to max level and do raids. They also had a co-op server where you could join up with everyone on the server including other factions and no pvp anywhere, everyone could unite for pve even in the frontiers which were pvp zones on other servers.

But ganking is sooo fuuuuunnnn

Srs its fun hiding / running for your life when that level skull druid is in swift cat form and your running for your LIFE trying to get into the town so the guards can protect you