Well just to start with I am playing on the 360 and aren't experiencing the problems that you have been, like you said yourself it's probably the Xbox that's your problem.
Now I also thought that difficulty would be a problem on my 81 with maxed gear (150mag, 500hp, 450stam base stats) so I stashed ALL of my equipment before starting Dawnguard apart from clothes, an Alik'r hood and two scimitars and tried it out on Adept difficulty. To be fair most of the fights were still quite straightforward with my high amount of health and just took time however there were quite a few moments which were quite challenging to overcome and the expansion was on the whole still enjoyable for me.
My starting class on Skyrim was also a Rogue focusing on stealth and illusion spells with daggers and bows. I completed the Alduin questline at level 14. With this experience I can probably tell you that if you continue into Dawnguard as a Stealth Archer you wont find it very much of a challenge.
You can however decide to avoid using stealth and just rely on your bow in combat which will definetly bring the difficulty back up to par. If not, creating a warrior or a conjuration based mage would probably be another good option as they also get quite a bit out of this expansion.
My problems with the game on Xbox are totally game patch related, I have the new shape black 250GB machine and 1.6 has screwed everything from popup lighting effects and draw distance to the more important reproducable crashes and freezes with the game.
Thanks all for the input though, I may try Dawnguard with vanilla gear, no buffs to armour or weapons, with my current character to see how it works out. From what I've read it adds about 8 hours gameplay to the game, or 16 if you try both options. I just don't want it to be over before I've had time to enjoy it through breezing through quests because they're too easy. I just wish the game difficulty scaled better to level and gear.