the one i was thinking of choosing, in the pale, seems to get frequent dragon attacks... even then, thats just one enemy at a time, right?
i could handle a dragon every now and then easily enough, especially if i call for help.
the other places seem to have all of skyrim knocking at your door 24/7, from the sound of it... oh, and i read that your family seems to approve of the lakeside manor the most... of course, the MOST dangerous of all the houses is the one they like best.

bears, bandits, dragons, warlocks, giants... great place to raise children, apparently.
but the BIG problem is, all the houses sound as glitchy as they are dangerous.
hell, atleast two of the three houses apparently cause a massive system freeze upon entering them, from what i read... the hell?
the lakeside manor apparently causes alot of other glitches, one of which can even interfere with a quest, from what i read... great.
so... i have no idea what i want to do... im thinking of just getting the house in solitude and moving my family there... solitude is a nice, racial-friendly city.
kinda svcks, i really wanted to have a family living in a house my character built himself, would've really added alot to it... but they're sounding too dangerous, or are just bad choices due to the glitches.