I have doubts screaming loudly will accomplish much, you have to re-enter the Soul Cairn on the same forrm as you left it. You went and changed into something else once you left, I would think your Soul Cairn travelling days are over. If you went as a vampire, and got yourself cured or turned into a werewolf you could try asking Serana to change you into a vampire. But Aela will only give you one second chance at being a werewolf. If you were not a werewolf when you entered the Soul Cairn the first time, I doubt anything you do will be getting you in there as a werewolf.
I know the op used less than appealing grammar, but you essentially just repeated everything he stated. Also, from comments made by Valerica, it is clear that you SHOULD be able to re-enter the Soul Cairn in any form upon exiting, but obviously that feature is not working as intended (among several others in all honesty).
I've said this before, and I promise I'm not doing it to brag, but I had this exact same problem and I was able to have Serana turn me into a VL after having regained my lycanthropy and I WAS able to re-enter the Soul Cairn. Why this worked for me and not for either of you, I don't know, but I do not doubt that when (or I suppose if, a depressing thought if their ever was one) they patch DG, they will fix this issue.