Reverting back to human takes me about a minute, so i have to suffer this pause everytime i want time i want to switch back and forth. I use console commands to increase my weight limit so i can carry everything i want, is this the problem?

Machine specs might play a role here rather than setting carryweight, since many items in game can also adjust this too.
Scripts drive the Werewolf and Vampire Lord transformations.
Some of the items used are not "playable" and are added, equipped, and removed by script.
Then there is the toggling of various player controls.