stage
0- as soon as you are married and have adopted at least one child
10- courier delivers letter, read letter
20- follow directions on letter (which means going to a location to meet the person who sent the letter)
30- Followed directions, quest over
---- Part 2 (but that's not the part I am having problems with...)
I wouldn't mind an entire overview of the whole quest in question, I really want to finish making this quest.