I am thinking I am bugged and probably nothing I can do about it but you never know until you ask. So after jumping from one settlement to the next I finally decided to make Somerville Place my main camp. The main reason for this is the fact this one has 2 children and that really fit the grieving mother RP I was doing plus it rains a lot there and I see that is a sign of hope. Anyways all was well for quite a long time but now things are about as broken as they can get.
When I first started building here I threw down a bunch of beds and then kind of forgot about that part. Over time the camp grew and I thought I had turned off the beacon to recruit more settlers because I was chasing after the special merchants but I hadn't. Upon returning to the camp one day I found that no one was working any of the vendor booths, no one was working the garden. Really the only one who was doing what they were assigned was the front gate guard. At night they all made there way to the beds except for one settler who I found was sleeping in the boy's bed. There are 2 beds inside the house that before I could not assign anyone to or move and they were used by both kids. Now those beds are assignable (not sure if I can move them haven't tried) and both kids never sleep. Each morning when the others get up they again just stand around. Checking the booths and food no one is assigned. So not sure if the bed thing is what caused this camp to break but is there any way I can fix this?