» Tue Mar 19, 2013 4:21 pm 
Alright, I've made a few comments lately about a girl (Mia) that.... I would like to be involved with, but currently am not, which isn't the subject here. Now, if you remember last year I made a thread about another girl who really did a number on my head, but because of her (I'll just call her A) I know this girl, because she works for A's mom.
Since last summer when I started having little if anything to do with A, and started spending more time with Mia while she was working, I started developing feelings for her. Even though at first I didn't really do anything, after I while I heard that her boss was complaining about how much time I was spending with her while she was working (I never got in the way of her doing her job, or interfering with customers), so I cut back on the time that I spent with her. Then her boss started telling my boss things about her that were... unflattering (mainly that her and her female cousin that she was living with at the time where 'kissing cousins') and he (my boss) couldn't understand why he was being told stuff like that, but I understood that he was being told so that he would tell me.
I ignored the... bs as much as I could, but I know that lately (especially since she's currently crashing with her boss's business partner who I'm sure has asked her unnecessary and uncomfortable questions, and could easily get access to her cell phone and read any texts between us) they've been giving her more flack than she'll tell me. The last time that I talked to her while she was working, when I left I said, "Well, I better get out of here before I get you in trouble.... or more trouble I guess." To which she replied, "Yea, they've been lecturing me left and right."Now, this morning my boss tried to gently tell me some news that he heard over this weekend about Mia, and while he was leading up to it he asked me "do you like her?"
Uh, you didn't realise this before? Guess not, but they told him that she 'prefers guys with darker skin than us'. I'm not saying that it's not possible, but again it's them trying to get between her and I. *mumble grumble* He wants to keep out of things, and I would prefer that he does, but things are getting crazy.I used to like her boss well enough, but I'm really starting to take this personally, and when my sister suggested getting something to eat at Subway tonight, I didn't feel guilty (since she works at a sandwich shop... and at a Wendy's, but I've only seen her there once). I really don't understand why they seem to have such an issue, and my boss doesn't like that he's starting to get in the middle (I don't think he cares what goes on between us, even though he's got a few problems with her).
My biggest problem is that they are attacking her, and trying to use my boss as a wedge between us, but never saying anything to me. I care a lot for her, and have feelings for her which she knows about (and hasn't rejected them, which is what usually happens). I also know that the stress that they're putting her under is affecting her bi-polar, and also making her smoke more, even though lately she's been talking about trying to quit.
Rant done, who do you want to complain about that makes no sense to you?
Not looking for advise or anything, just..... wanting to get my thoughts in order. 
.. so... very alone....
