In my game, it is impossible for my husband to move to Lakeview Manor, there is no option for him to do so. He can move to his old house, or my house in Markath, but no new options.
This is quite annoying:/ I dont want a new house if my spouse cant live there.
Also having the same problem. My spouse is Jordis the Sword-Maiden if that helps at all and she's stuck at Breezehome along with my adopted child. There is no dialogue option to move to any other house.
1.) Do you have the Main Hall built or have a bed in the small house? 2.) Have you added a Bedroom wing with at least one child's bed and one child's chest?*
*If you have two children, you'll need 2 beds for children and two chests.
1) That fixed it, thank you so much I had given the steward money to furnish the house, but I guess she hadnt gotten around to the beds yet. When I manually added a double bed, I was able to move my spouse.