hence why i never been too fond for magic in skyrim but that doesnt mean im gonna chop heads off everywhere "ohh look i dont even care about this game let me just hit u with my daedric mace to the face and....ohhhh dead" that's not my playstyle..i saw ssohpkc a famous youtuber who uploads all sorts of gaming playthroughs and he did a 200 plus episode run of skyrim and he's the perfect example of what im talking about.. a person who doesnt give a crap about the game, just plays for the heck of it. that's called mainstream ignorance.
sneaking is not better. you either go melee with dagger like: "oh look an enemy", sneak behind, which is not difficult at all in elder scrolls, and kill.
or you play the stealth archer. you clear every dungeon from the beginning without getting seen.
you mentioned stealth to be the real "nerd playstyle", but i would say the pure mage would be this. most difficult playstyle in the game is the pure mage.
edit: there has been a poll already and stealth was far ahead. don't remember the name of it, but is probably named like "your favourite playstyle?" or so. don't know, would have to search for it.