I have no steward, and built my house several days ago. I was wondering how to go about getting one. I have a follower currently. Does that mean I need to get rid of her before I can hire a steward? I am unsure and I don't want to tell her to leave if I don't have to. But so far there has not been one person hanging around my house asking for the job.
Next, I have to say I'm a little disappointed in what occured with some of my weapons. I made several glass cabinets in my armory room for unique, one of a kind weapons I've attained. Upon visiting my house after putting them in the cases, I found that some of them just completely disappeared with no explanation why. There went my Blades sword and Nettlebane dagger, among a few others. Why does this happen? I've lost rare items now because I thought I was safely storing them in my own house. I no longer use the glass cases at all. Has this happened to anyone else? Seems sort of like a rip off.
Last, I would like to know if it's a good thing to arm your family and give them weapons. Will they use them for protection, or just keep them in their inventory? It would be nice if they could defend themselves if needed.