I'm not sure just how relevant you'll find this, but I heard that if you translate what the Draugr are saying, they're actually apologising for attacking you.
Nah, not really. You could interprete it like that, since they essentially say "Eternal Sorrow" (Unslaad Krosis), but they also say "Doomed dragonhunter" (Daanik Ah Dov), and I'd think the latter certainly isn't an apology. I've actually always interpreted Unslaad Krosis as "eternal sorrow upon you, intruder"
Are those the guys that are like glowing ghosts that keep saying I'm sorry?
Aren't those the thralls? They often say "Thank you" when you kill them ...