Let me see if i understand correctly: so in order to become a Nightingale, I must swear my afterlife to Nocturnal as well as my life? Does this mean that I give up Sovngarde? Because if so, then forget it, lady. When I completed the main quest my greatest joy was having the Nord heroes tell me they'd be waiting for me with a big feast when my time came. Nocturnal is only offering me a bit of luck in my thieving exploits, and I don't even get to keep the skeleton key. Blargh.
Or am I not understanding this correctly?