Ok so I married aela the huntress (I believe her name is) during the quest the totem hircine. I would greatly appreciate if you made an update so that you can get divorced properly. Because I can not kill her because she is a main character. I need this because it is messing up my whole skyrim experience, when I go to do that quest (totem hircine) it freezes because it thinks she is at my home but it's trying to make her be with me at the mission and it is not letting it load In the cave please help!!!!!!!!

Are you on a PC, or a console?

Could you just dismiss your one follower (if you have one) and then tell Aela to follow you? She would then be at the mission with you.