I chose Falkreath and built my home up as much as I could, adopted a couple of urchins, got a steward, a dog, a housecarl... the whole works. But before long I decided to move back to Breasehome. I preferred my humble little house and living in Whiterun is much more convenient. But I missed my armory and having the other optional rooms. Two of the rooms in Breasehome are completely wasted for me. I don't use the alchemy lab, or the spare bedroom (Lydia joined the Blades).
What I think would be great is if I could refit those two rooms to something like the options available to the manors. For example I would like a kitchen where the alchemy lab is, and a armory where the spare room is. They already allow you to refit a room for a child's bedroom so you can adopt. Why not take that further? You'd just go to the steward and say you'd like to refit one of my rooms, and he shows you the options. He could furnish and decorate it for you, or even better just strip everything out and place a carpenter's table and allow you to do it yourself.
Wouldn't that be great? Imagine the possibilities; take Honeyside in Riften for example (the only other house I've owned). I'd like to take out the enchanter's bench and convert that large room to an armour or trophy room. The back bedroom downstairs could be a smithy, and you might keep the alchemy lab there or turn it into a library. It wouldn't have to be every room. The main room, dining area and master bedrooms would stay as default, you'd just have an option to customise one or two of the other rooms.
What do you reckon?
I also have a couple of other suggestions. As I said I think two of the plots are too remote and too far away from a main road. So when you hire a carriage it just plonks down outside the house with no way of getting to or from the house. The one in Falkreath is ok, you could get a carriage past the pond to the road. But why not have the option to add a driveway (if it's possible, I'm not sure if it is) complete with a sign post at the end with the estate's name. Or for the one in Hjaalmarch, maybe a boatman would be more appropriate than a carriage driver.
Also why not include one of those neat little hand carts you see everywhere with the garden? And a well might be a nice addition. Although it would serve no purpose in game terms, it would add to the lived-in look of the homestead.
Thank you for your time.