Did you read the part where he said "don't come crying when you have nothing but an iron sword against an ancient dragon"?
I don't need anyone to tell me whose game I am playing.
The guy is a jerk.
he raised a very good point, and maybe you should try reading things with a pinch of humor, I find it leads to a lot less miss-understandings, and a lot more informative discussion.
also, you are a jerk (works both ways mate)
have you thought about nipping out to get some spells? like ones for different magic trees (illusion comes to mind), that way you can level some of your magic skills to boost your level, and as long as you don't enter a cell with a leveled item or level locked companion you should be fine, it might be worth noting what areas you can and can't visit until you reach a higher level, maybe even make a color-coded map, that way you can get out and do some things that not only aid in your leveling process but also let you experience the gameplay.
IMO gameplay is more fun at max level, you stop needing to worry about your skills and stuff and you are completely aware of your abilities and how far they extend, and I can completely understand why you would want things to be max scale for your collection, I used to be like that, but then I realized that they only unique items I cared about were targe of the blooded and the fiery soul trap enchanted axe.