» Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:27 am
Yeah, the no letter thing may not be an actual glitch as apparently you never get one if you're a thane in the area. Also, from what I gather, you will only get 1 letter anyway, once you have one letter, you can then go to all three holds and get the property (assuming you meet the criteria). The letter you may or may not receive can also be from a different hold entirely, not one of the three. Mine was from the Jarl of Whiterun and his steward proceeded to tell me I could alter my house to allow adoption.
What I think is meant to happen is that you get the note, go to the hold, talk to the Jarl, do some missions to become Thane, then have the option to buy the land, I don't think the land is supposed to be immediately available upon arrival.