I completed the quest to get the ebony blade and I thought it looked cool so I figured I'd stick it in my weapon rack in Whiterun until I felt like using it. Fast forward awhile and I completed the TG questline. I went to go store my ebony blade in the chest so I could put the nightingale blade and chillrend in the weapon rack and I found that my ebony blade had disappeared. I know I didn't complete it on another save whilst drinking because it was in my journal as completed (I checked) and I never sell unique stuff. Maybe Farengar broke into my house and stole it back, maybe Lydia is planning to kill me in my sleep with it, who knows.
Anyways, on to Hjerim. I completed Blood on the Ice bugged like everyone else and ended up buying this house after completing the Stormcloak questline. The option to "clean up the murderer's mess" never showed up and I was ok with that because the room where your enchanter and alchemy lab are look awesome with human remains and blood splattered everywhere. It fit my evil character. I decided to decorate my house with my spoils of war, the various swords that Ulfric had given me over the course of events. Leaving and returning at a later point empties your home of the weapon racks and dagger display cases and such. In short, it completely resets your home as if you'd never entered. I think Blood on the Ice ends up bugging the house. I found it a little annoying at the time so I stayed away from that house afterwards.