Well...I'm hacked off now : Othor Games

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 5:17 am

read the spoiler if you want to read a lovely rant by yours truly

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so 8 years after the death my grandpa...i come to find out i inherited his farm 1000 acre farm stunning beautiful
we found out after my mom found his lock box which had his will that somehow no one knew about legally proofed and everything in there old house...she didn't tell me until today that she is going to sell it because its family land and i am no longer family...
i don't believe in suing your parents...but sadly i don't have parents anymore, I was my grandpa favorite...also found out i got his old cars 3 of them his house, his suits, basically everything because he thought i was more of a man then my brother, and my father who was his son which i find funny that he said that Christmas day 2002 when i was 14 haha
and my psycho mother sold, my father being a push over pansy that he is let her.

does anyone else have family they hate with such a passion you wish they would fall off the earth?

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 2:41 pm

My dad

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 3:02 pm

So, wait, no one knew about the will until today or your family found the will and never told you about it until today? Did they already sell it?

You should sue them. Who cares if they're you're family, your grandfather obviously didn't want it in his daughter/son's hands and entrusted you with it.

It's not family land if your grandfather left it to YOU. It's not theirs to sell.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 6:36 pm

So, wait, no one knew about the will until today or your family found the will and never told you about it until today? Did they already sell it?

You should sue them. Who cares if they're you're family, your grandfather obviously didn't want it in his daughter/son's hands and entrusted you with it.

It's not family land if your grandfather left it to YOU. It's not theirs to sell.

the supposedly found it only monday, my mom is poor, i can sue her and probably make her lose her home and i wouldnt feel sorry at all...and i swear if she sold my papas gun from world war 2, i will go ape, i got his diary the day he died lucky for me he had the vin numbers of the cars written down, im gonna try and track them down and see if anyone had the common decency to give them to the rightful owner

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 5:22 am

Varying degrees of hate for most.

I believe my uncle may have done something similar when he sold grandma's house for "40k".

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 1:33 pm

Those were left to you and legally should now be in your name. They can't sell it...

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 4:59 pm

Those were left to you and legally should now be in your name. They can't sell it...

thing i didnt even know about this until today
and honestly i think my mother knew years ago and never gave them to me, she never liked me I was her first born i was her mistake at 14 years old that made her drop out
but i dont know how thats my fault?

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:59 am

Those were left to you and legally should now be in your name. They can't sell it...

This, if it's a real will the land is legally yours regardless if you're not considering family out of differences.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 8:07 am

anyone else have crappy family?

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:17 pm

If there's an actual verified will and testament that gives you the rights to the entire 1000 acre farm, your family cannot legally sell it without your approval. So if they go to try and sell it, it will be very difficult for them. However, if they already some how mannaged to sell it, this is a felony.

Was the will written saying something like it will belong to your guardians until you come of age or something like that? Something that puts the land in your family's possession for a period of time?

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:19 pm

If there's an actual verified will and testament that gives you the rights to the entire 1000 acre farm, your family cannot legally sell it without your approval. However, was the will written saying something like it will belong to your guardians until you come of age or something like that?

My grandpa hated my parents i doubt it, i told her to meet me at the farm and bring the will.
I'm bringing an attorney who i spoke to hours ago, who said it would be fine
I am so angry i could scream, the house and farm were taken care of by my grandpas best friend who is still kickin, he will also be there,he also hates my mother

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 7:56 am

I have some crazy parents too. But they've never done something like this. As others have said before me, that land is legally yours and they can't just take it away from me. Plus, they're hypocrites, telling you you're not part of the family yet putting restrictions on the things you can and cannot own.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 1:39 pm

My grandpa hated my parents i doubt it, i told her to meet me at the farm and bring the will.
I'm bringing an attorney who i spoke to hours ago, who said it would be fine
I am so angry i could scream, the house and farm were taken care of by my grandpas best friend who is still kickin, he will also be there,he also hates my mother

Hopefully your mother will actually bring the will and not say it got lost or something.

So if they haven't sold the farm, I think you're going to be alright. It sounds like you're already taking the correct actions to make sure everyone is aware that the farm, among other things, were actually entitled to you.

Speaking of the other things, what has happened to them? The cars, suits, and all the possessions that were in the home?

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 5:26 am

my sister pisses me off on a daily basis, but i don't hate her

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 11:26 am

I hate my brothers and sister. Sue the [censored] for doing that.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 10:41 am

thing i didnt even know about this until today
and honestly i think my mother knew years ago and never gave them to me, she never liked me I was her first born i was her mistake at 14 years old that made her drop out
but i dont know how thats my fault?

Your mom is a [censored].

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 5:28 am

Wish my family would stop being crazy, for the most part. Don't really hate any of them. One's in dire need of a heaping dose of reality that she'll probably never get, though. Filed for disability, svcks money off the state, and doesn't do anything at all with her life beyond sleeping and eating.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:26 am

My father. I dont hate my other family as much, but I sense that when I am older I will sever all ties with them.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 2:19 pm

Hopefully your mother will actually bring the will and not say it got lost or something.

So if they haven't sold the farm, I think you're going to be alright. It sounds like you're already taking the correct actions to make sure everyone is aware that the farm, among other things, were actually entitled to you.

Speaking of the other things, what has happened to them? The cars, suits, and all the possessions that were in the home?

I know the house was cleared out of the valuable stuff by Ace my grandpas friend for safe keeping, i don't know if he got the guns, he left the furniture i know that much and some other stuff that he thought should stay put, but he and his wife clean it. The cars were sold... I luckily have a lot of money in the bank if that's what it takes.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 3:17 pm

I come from a long line of fools; many of them may be blustering morons but they're not jackasses. I'm annoyed with them but I don't hate them per se. I'm also okay with my immediate family (mom dad and sister).
All except for my grandfather on my mother's side; if I had a gun and were standing face to face with the man, I would in all probability shoot him.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 12:18 pm

anyone else have crappy family?

My father totaled one of our family cars with a ax once.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:40 am

I dont but I'm sorry bro thats [censored] up

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 11:55 am

Well that's [censored].

Can't say I hate my folks though... I love them and visa versa, but they've been divorced/hated each other since I was only six months old.

And I'm an only child, so they're all I got. My moms side is a tad wacky though, and my paps lost touch with his side after his sister died.

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 6:00 pm

Nothing to complain about here. Love all members of my family, no major disagreements between them, no long feuds and everyone basically likes each other. So all good here. :ermm:

» Sat Oct 27, 2012 7:34 pm

she has no right to sell the land then the land, even if she told someone else it was theirs if they buy it you can take back the land and tell the owner that they'll have to get their money back from the unauthorized sale, and it's a big crime to sell another person's home

my family has never done anything like this, just persistently irritating to be/live with