» Tue Oct 30, 2012 2:12 am
I don't know if it'll help, but my main (high 20's archer) is going through a similar transition now. He was a down-on-his-luck bandit-turned-mercenary who had no ambitions beyond doing odd jobs for the folk in Whiterun for a few coins. Now that he's established himself, though (Harbinger, two houses, a wife and an adopted kid), he's starting to take the whole Dragonborn thing a bit more seriously. He's come back to the main quest line, and is doing the religiously-themed quests along the way to try to figure out what, if anything, is actually worth fighting for (prompted by a chance encounter with Froki).
So maybe that's what you need - some sort of cause, or a quest for a cause (which can be a cause in itself)?