I know these threads are prolly common, and I am sorry to add to the list and sorry if this breaking any possible rules but I am having an issue.

I recently broke up with someone that I was dating mainly because it was long distance and I really need someone to be with me by my side at these times... Problem is, I do have feelings for them and I kinda feel bad (Specially since I broke up with them while listening to "Monster" Brony-Song)...

I really don't know what I should do, to be honest... Be with them and have a chance of never actually being with someone in real life, and that chance that they are lying, OR continue what I am doing and find someone else who is actually in my school? Hmm...

Also, any advice on living on with this type of guilt? I never broke up with someone who I actually cared for.. Now, I did broke up with someone else but that was obvious and I regret being with that person... Other than that, everybody else I was with broke up with me or..... Death.

I don't see any reason to break up with this person unless you've found someone nearby who you have feelings for.

I'm reporting anyone who says JAHO.

Don't feel guilty. You're a teen. In a year neither party will care anymore.

If you didn't have someone already set up to be "beside" you, why did you break up in the first place? You obviously still like her, and you don't seem to like being single. It sounds like you didn't put a lot of thought in it and made a snap judgment.

You have two options, apologize to her and try to salvage the relationship. Bear in mind that you will probably never have the upper hand in this relationship again. It will make you look weak and a little pathetic. Sorry to say, you probably deserve that though, for making a decision like that. This is the path of the beta.

Second option is to go out there and actually put an effort into finding someone else and succeed at this. Of course, don't be desperate and get into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship, but since looking for a real life girlfriend was your goal to begin with, might as well achieve it now that you cleared the path. This is the path of the reformed beta.

Seriously though, man... Seriously... next time, if you're gonna make a choice, be damn sure, and know that you won't regret it.

This.

And http://i.imgur.com/HLzSP.jpg.

I'm 18, which is the advlt age. But I guess that can still count as a 'teen'.

Eighteen.

It was probably inevitable anyway, assuming you're talking about an online relationship.

Actually, there are a few people I've been wanting to ask out. I should've mentioned that...

And I kinda don't mind being single... It just that my Uncle killed himself a few months ago and I'm still upset about that.. And need someone special to be with..(My Uncle was like an older brother to me.. We grew up together)

Another thing I kinda forgot to mention.. I person I broke up with has the same name as my Uncle... That doesn't help me out at all...

Hm. Strange, I never looked at my age like that. I was always told 18 is when you become an advlt.

You didn't realize up until now that 18 and 19 year olds are still teenagers?

There is no set age where you become an advlt (if the law isn't to be counted). Becoming an advlt is very subjective. It isn't as if, just because you hit 20, that you are an official advlt because you lack teen at the end of your age.

Like I said, I was always told that 18 is the official first advlt age and the age where you can live on your own, and such.

It is, but it still has teen at the end.

Besides, you can't do any of the fun stuff until 21. In USA at least.

Fun stuff, like smoking and drinking alcohol? I rather be a momma boy all my life and play video games every day then enter that type of lifestyle..

Fixed.

Well you still need to be 21 to get the strong stuff here (Norway) I know it's 18 other places (like in the UK, my friends sang their praises to the gods of alcohol).
Of course this fun is subjective, I didn't find it all that great to be honest, but that's a discussion for another time.

Oh.. I just remembered something.. When I was 16, I was dating this amazing girl but she is gone now... And I miss her every single day still... Explain that, since me being teen means I should not care anymore.. By your knowledge...

Because you're still a teen and emotionally fragile. Once you mature you'll realize it doesn't matter.

There isn't an age limit to teen stupidity. I'm just saying "teen" because it's representative of that period.

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Scratch that second option I presented. Go and fall at the feet of that ex-girlfriend of yours begging for forgiveness before some one else chances upon her WoW character.

Now that is [censored] insult and really pissed me off... I would LOVE to be with her right now but I said she is gone.. Dead... She was in a car accident with her friend, who was [censored] drunk driving.. OF ALL THINGS!

Oh wow, I'm sorry man, I wasn't talking about her, I was talking about the one you mentioned in the OP.

Edit: And it was meant to be a joke more than anything, again, I'm sorry if you found it offensive.

I apologize in his place for not meeting your exacting social standards.

He meant the girl you just broke up with.

Well, you don't have to smoke, but you will drink alcohol every now and then.

Also, if I were you, I would enjoy the single life. Being in a relationship is really hard to handle. I would rewind my life back 3 months and fix mistakes I have made, one very big mistake thing concerning my girlfriend and I.


It's not too late for you to enjoy being single, to enjoy life, and above all, to have money to spend on yourself rather the needs of the two of you.



Edit: Just noticed your post, it may be more difficult to enjoy the single life for a while...

That was not out of character at all...