All my other Housecarls have a room with a bed except the one in Proudmore Manner I wonder why that is?

Proudspire. I believe her room is in the basemant by the back door, across from your Alchemy station IIRC.

She does. There's a bedroll in the cellar. Seriously.

Housecarls isnt sworn to sleep in beds.

Jordis has a choice. She can either sleep on that pile of hay in the basemant or crawl into the big double bed upstairs with you.

Seriously though, I think the developers just forgot to do the upgrade bit for her basemant room when she becomes housecarl. The other houses all upgrade the housecarl quarters at the time they move in.

The issue i have is that my housecarls never sleep. On top of that my characters wife never sleeps in the master bedrooms.
Example
Lydia spends all her time sitting in chair in whiterun or walking around.
Jordis sits in the main entry way and never leaves that floor.
My charactes wife sleeps on the bedroll in the basemant and and never sleeps in a bed.

I need the creation kit so i can fix this crap.

Add a bedroom to the basemant in Proudspire, make jordis sleep in there.
Make Lydia sleep in her room in whiterun,
Make the characters wife sleep in the master bedrooms regardless of the house.
Make the riften housecarl sleep in her room downstairs,
add options to have war clean up crews come in and remove/repair damaged structures from the civil war in cities.
The list goes on and on. There is so much that , after nearly 300 hours of playtime are starting to feel rushed and unfinished.
I mean hell they added children for the first time, but you don't have the option to have a child with your characters wife? You don't have the option to be come a jarl? Or to marry the Jarl of Solitude and claim High King?

so much to do when i get the creation kit...

is it possible to have all your housecarls in the same house?

No, Bethesda doesn't want you to have a harem.

Although I came home to Sylgia (and Jordis) while I had Lydia in tow. 3 lovely ladies hanging out in Proudspire- time to break out the Alto Wine.
I felt like quite the Dohvakin Mack Daddy

True Housecarls should be like in reality... Run while you ride a horse, and sleep on the floor while you sleep in bed.

And be happy about it. They are serving their Thane.

That's a terrible design decision on their part.

Ive heard of the run by the horse thing, but did they seriously make them sleep on the floor in RL as a standard? like not even let their housecarl curl up at the foot of the bed?