As the topic says, Aela whom i married after doing all possible quests with was killed (not exhausted/hurt) so i did the dishonorable thing and "console-resurrected" her but now i dont seem to be married anymore and neither does she seem to react to the amulet of mara at all... help would be greatly appreciated if there can be a solution to this!

When it comes to how npc reactions/dialogue is handled, most npcs are set to dead permanently, once they die. Regardless of whether or not you resurrect them. So, if you can remarry and you want to, I'd suggest doing so. Otherwise, I suppose you could just stop by and gawk at Aela, occasionally.

problem is i cant remarry, and there doesnt seem to be any way i can raise my relations with her either seing that i did all that before she died. bah this svcks but atleast she works as a normal companion, but would still be awesome if she could be wife again since she also brought inn some cash with whatever she did...

Yeah. I tried killing my wife and I noticed you couldn't get remarried. Sooo, I guess we'll just have to wait for mods, just like with a lot of other things.