So shortly after I finished constructing houses on all the plots of land I went to talk to my wife about moving to one of them. When I say to her "I'd like us to move somewhere else," there is now only one option that appears, and it is where she already is (Proudspire Manor). In other words I can no longer move my wife out of the house I had her in when I installed hearthfire. Is anyone else having this problem? Does anyone know how it might be fixed?

have you adopted kids? if so you need to get them beds and a chest,before you can move the family

Ok! Problem fixed. Thank you for your help ak5434.

no problem,that's what we are here for