Me too but making them vanish is more realistic. I doubt Bethesda will actually put the time in to fix it properly.
Oh yeah, making them go away is easier, but I don't care either way.
Over or under's fine by me, just not through.
I can live with my necklace sitting under my plate armor, & I can work with it laying on top of it.
However, I am not at all happy with my amulet jammed THROUGH, my armor.